When the Spotlight Misses You: Mental Health, Recognition, and the Sports Banquet Nobody Talks About”
As I was scrolling through Instagram, I saw FSDB’s announcement for the 62nd Annual Sports Banquet. It brought back memories—some good, some awkward. I played football and wrestled at FSDB for several seasons, and those years shaped me. But I also remember the feeling of standing on the stage through the ceremony year after year, without hearing my name called. So, I left a comment on their post. Here’s what I wrote: "Cool! Here's my advice (mental health tip): If you're feeling anxious and know you won’t be receiving an award or recognition at the banquet, it’s okay not to attend—for the sake of your mental well-being. I wish I had made that choice 20 years ago. Take care of yourself, and remember—good luck and stay humble! Much love to FSDB." Some coaches might not like that message. But I believe FSDB’s mental health counselors would understand exactly where I’m coming from. Before I get deeper into that, let me say this—I had good moments at FSDB. I won “Rookie of...